Lost my dogs trust

Long story short I was walking my dog this morning and freed him at some point so he could socialize with some dogs he's friends with.
When it was time to go back he didn't listen to my commands and jumped in a hole in the fence of a nearby train station and started running.
I went after him as you would expect but I lost him in the tall grass so I started calling his name but he wouldn't come back.
I looked for him for a while and was starting to think the worst could happen when I saw there was a roadway nearby.
Eventually he showed up behind me so I immediately put him back on the leash and slapped him on the head because the anger got the best of me.
At the time I didn't think much of it, I don't think I hit him that hard anyways and that never happened before.

We have always been very close, we would always sleep together and he would follow me around the house.
I'm the one who feeds him, plays with him and takes him on all his walks, I love this dog, but ever since that accident he will only hang around my parents and brother (who also love him very much) and he'll be very aggressive with me.

Now he only comes to me when it's time to go for his walk.

I wish I could go back and stop myself, I regret it, I really feel like shit.
I don't know if he'll ever forgive me but I certainly will never forgive myself.

My only hope is as time passes I'll regain his trust

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  1. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    >this morning
    Stop whining, and wait before drawing nonsensical conclusions about the long term relationship between man and dog.

  2. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Literally what the frick is this thread?

    No, it's not okay to hit your fricking animal. You are right to feel bad. It was a lose-lose scenario and you, as the owner, have the responsibility to mitigate that, not the dog. It's a dog. That thing was bred to love and seek help from you.

    The other comments in this thread are absolutely insane and I hope you can recognize that. Don't let shit people turn you into a shit person, too.

  3. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Only subhuman urbanite vermin let dogs off their leash in public. Kick rocks subhuman ape.

  4. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    It knows it did wrong and it knows you hit it because it did wrong. It just thinks it can get away with it. It'll eventually go back to normal.

  5. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    I remember my uncle would always smack his late dogs head, he didn't mind so much. maybe you smacked him pretty hard

  6. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    >when it was time to go back he didn't listen to my commands
    start running away from dog at this very moment, and give dog positive reinforcement for coming to you instead of punishing not to listen

  7. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    OP here just want to say that I'm trans sorry I forgot to mention it not sure if that matters.

    Edit: wow this post really took off thank you for all your kind words and support I will be getting bottom surgery next week so I'm a little emotional

  8. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dog knows it did bad and is being shy because it doesn't know if you're still upset with it. It'll be fine.

  9. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dont listen to this mentally ill monster.
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    He thinks wrapping your dog in packing tape and sexually assaulting it is good and proper punishment. Even worse is that he took pictures of it to attention prostitute on the dog general thread.

  10. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your insecurity speaks for itself. Try to reconnect with the dog. Play with him. Hug him.

  11. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Dogs don't have 'trust'. It's an animal, not a person. You are freaking out over a bio-robot.

    • 8 months ago
      Anonymous

      Reminds me of my aunt who didn't know how to take care of her gorgeous borzoi and argued that dogs could not learn more than two words

  12. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dogs don't have 'trust'. It's an animal, not a person. You are freaking out over a bio-robot.

    • 8 months ago
      Anonymous
    • 8 months ago
      Anonymous

      >t. too stupid to understand simple dog emotion, chooses to just rule it out completely
      many such cases on this mongolian basket weaving forum

  13. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's okay to hit dogs a bit. I don't mean beating the living shit out of them but a smack on the head will do anyone some good.

  14. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    I once trod on my MIL's dogs tail by accident of course. She's a very sensitive reactive thing and it took her months to even let me touch her again.
    But we were patient, and now she lets me pet her.
    Give it a week, two tops. Your dog will forget all about it. Don't do it again though.

  15. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've literally beaten my dog and dragged him around. He always chooses me before anybody else. lmao

    By the way when a dog runs, don't chase them. You're supposed to run away so they chase you.

    • 8 months ago
      Anonymous

      if you replace dog with women in this post this is how you actually get girls unironically

  16. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your dog sounds like a c**t

  17. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah OP I don't mean this in an insulting way, but I think you've got problems involving control/life positivity, sorry if it was badly worded.
    Again this isn't me trying to shit on you. I know you probably love your dog but this is a sign of a greater issue, reflexively hitting animals out of anger. Is everything in your life alright?

  18. 8 months ago
    Anonymous

    Grow up you whiney Black person. It's only a dog. It should be fricking grateful that it has shelter and gets food for free.

    You fricking low T subhuman.

    • 8 months ago
      Anonymous

      And just like that, he decided to show to the world the small soul he has. How little he is as a person. When, I front of a fellow anon in the midst of the emotion of treason, the fear of losing the trust of his loved one, the man-of-small-soul took a shit in front of everyone.

      He took a shit, and he proudly showed it to the others.
      >"See my shit? See how big I can make one? I'm a big, strong, boy!"

      Did the alcohol impair his judgment?
      The enthusiasm of a 14-year-old using anonymity to exercise his developing muscles?
      Self-hatred for doing the same thing?
      A blatant uncongenial who spent too much time on the Internet?

      Who knew. But the result is the same. A man took the opportunity to punch down on someone in a vulnerable moment. What a disgrace.

      And I ask you anon, what hurts you so much that you feel the need to hurt others to heal it. A person in control of life doesn't need to lash out. With every blow, you're condemnig yourself to the life of an animal and denying your divine potential. If you understood that everything is connected, you would never harm youself by harming others... May you find the force to redeem yourself.

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        Tldr. You sound weak.

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        go back

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        Gay b***h

        Antibumped your pussy shit

        Mentally I’ll Black person

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        Where do you think you are? He probably just said it as joke.

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        Fresh off the boat, from reddit, kid? heh I remember when I was just like you. Braindead.
        Lemme give you a tip so you can make it in this cyber sanctuary: never make posts like that.
        You got no reputation here, you got no name, you got jackshit here.
        It's survival of the fittest and you ain't gonna survive long on Wauf by making stupid posts that your little hugbox c**tsucking reddit friends would upboat.
        None of that here. You don't upboat. You don't downboat. This ain't reddit, kid. This is Wauf. We have REAL intellectual discussion, something I don't think you're all that familiar with.
        You don't like it, you can hit the bricks on over to imgur, you daily show watching son of a b***h. I hope you don't tho. I hope you stay here and learn our ways.
        Things are different here, unlike any other place that the light of internet pop culture reaches. You can be anything here. Me ? heh, I'm a judge.. this place....
        this place has a lot to offer... heh you'll see, kid . . . that is if you can handle it...

        • 8 months ago
          Anonymous

          >reddit
          Wauf has become so insecure about this website this is insane.

          • 8 months ago
            Anonymous

            gb2gaia

        • 8 months ago
          Anonymous

          T. a redditor who's been using Wauf for 3 years

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was gonna try to give you a helpful advice but then I read this shit. Have some dignity and don't make an absolute turd out of yourself

    • 8 months ago
      Anonymous

      Go leave you chinless rightoid homosexual.

      Don’t forget to shove a fat one up your ass on the way out. Andre rogan said it raises your “T”.

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't understand any of your autistic ramble, you weak homosexual.

        • 8 months ago
          Anonymous

          404 chin not found

    • 8 months ago
      Anonymous

      >calls op a Black person
      >behaves like an absolute subhuman

      • 8 months ago
        Anonymous

        Cry

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